First time father jitters.

I'm almost 16 weeks pregnant. It's both mine and my boyfriend's first child but he is way more stressed out and worried about it than I am and no matter what I do or say nothing seems to help calm him. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that we don't see each other hardly at all besides weekends. Were your boyfriends/husbands this way with your first child? What helps? I feel so terrible. He told me that he actually cried at work the other day because he was so stressed and worried about not being a good father and not being able to support us. Which I don't know why he thinks this way because I know he will be an amazing father and money will be a little tight but we will make it work. 😞😞😞