What do you think?

So I’ve been talking to this guy we both want something serious I hangout with him about 4 times everything is going great. But, I confronted him because he texts me “ I can’t wait to kiss you’re neck further down the future”. Like what?? Why not now. He said he wants to take things slow. He’s been married before. Anyways, I’m affectionate person I hate waiting for a month or 2 . Also I’m talking to someone else because he’s fun and doesn’t really hold back on being affectionate. I’m not being a terrible person on seeing them both even tho I’m not in a relationship?