Vbac after large baby

Hey ladies I had a super traumatizing first birthday 36 hours and only made it to 4cm turns out my baby was 10 pounds and couldn’t get down into my pelvis. My obgyn is saying if I go into labor naturally before 39 weeks they are all for vbac but they will lot induce me and will section me at 39 weeks. But I really want a vbac but with my history with big babies I’m not sure if it makes a difference my daughter is 5 now so it’s been awhile. Anyone have a successful vbac? Maybe with a large baby?