When you just ain’t “ feeling it “

Question

Are you sexually active with your husband / spouse / fiancé/ other half 
When your not in the mood , or just not feeling it?
Does it make you feel differently when you turn them down?
Or Almost like an obligated type of feeling?
Open discussion❗️

Answer

Pretty much all the time. I know that sex is important in our marriage and even with three small children I want to feel that closeness with my husband. Even if I’m not 100% in the mood I know I will be after a short time. I feel like my stress levels decrease significantly even after a quick session.

Answer

I don’t have sex when I don’t want to and I definitely don’t feel obligated to. I wouldn’t be with a partner who made me feel that way

Answer

Depends on the day; some days I will just to make him happy, other nights I won’t.

Answer

We both turn eachother down sometimes. Usually because one of us is tired or not feeling great. But sure, sometimes I feel obligated in my own head if it’s been a few days. We talked about it recently and he assured me I don’t have to feel that way (I’m early pregnant and haven’t been feeling it).

Answer

I don’t have sex when I don’t want to and my husband respects that just like if he doesn’t want to have sec then it’s okay! I’m not mad or anything we can always try for a different day because to me it’s not a big deal

Answer

Sometimes. Sometimes I'll feel like it earlier in the day but by the time the kids are in bed I'm beat lol. But sometimes i can get into it with enough foreplay, other times I cant

Answer

If I’m not in the mood, we won’t have sex. Same with if he’s not in the mood. We both always though but if that ever changes, I’m not going to feel any type of way if I say no to sex.

When you just ain’t “ feeling it “

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