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My husband and I were ttc and I just found out I am pregnant BUT we had a huge argument and are splitting up. I honestly don't know if it's forever or if we both need time apart to cool down but we haven't spoken he doesn't want to speak to me at all.

Do I even bother telling him right now or just leave it and maybe if he comes to talk or tried to talk ill tell him.

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You should tell him, but make sure that if you choose to stay together, it isn't just because of the baby.

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He deserves to know, but you two should not get back together just because of the baby. Maybe wait a little longer and try to work things out before you tell him.

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He deserves to know he has a child on the way. Also try couples therapy.

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My hubby and I were getting a divorce. We hadn't told anyone and we didn't make the decision official yet.

I came home from work one day super nauseous, took a pregnancy test and it was positive. I called my BFF she said not to tell him because I'd get stuck staying in the relationship.

Well I told him that night, we are still together. Things get bad and things are good. When he takes care of our son, and cooks me dinner on Saturdays and Sunday's I don't even think about where we could have been. But when he talks down to me, degrades me or we fight I think about where I could have been if I didn't tell him...

Ultimately it's something you have to figure out! Are the bad times bad enough where once the baby's here you can stick with him and push through?

Perks ally of I could do it over again I wouldn't have told him. I would have suggested we worked on our relationship and if things had gotten better I would have told him.

Best of luck xoxox

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