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So my mother who I moved in to help her get away from her abusive BF ..

Is driving us a bit crazy..

She hardly cleans up after her self does not contribute a lot to house food or toilet paper in her own bathroom she uses..

We pay a mortgage a car payment the bills around here and she only pays us $110 a month...

So there's a huge difference between us seriously huge difference. She asked my BF if he could open a credit card in his name and just let her use it!!

Hell I have never asked for such stuff it's embarrassing and she wants to take her credit card over draft and put it on the new card..

I told her no and she got mad saying I'm making her look bad and it's his decision..

I'm not allowing it and I put my foot down if you lose your income or pass away God for bid he's stuck with your bills he's not your BF or husband he's with me!

she's over stepping her boundaries and asks for more then what a normal mom should ask...

Like how embarrassing is this for me!?? Like all you do is use people and it is killing me..

She needs to get out sooner he. Later I need our home back I have a baby due in 8 weeks and I have a 6 year old too I don't feel I belong in my own house I can't have sex without her hearing or saying something..

It's fucking up my relationship..

I feel bad but I do not have a relationship with her at all since 13 she's has ignored me at 16 I had 2 jobs and paid my own way she stopped doing anything for my birthday since I was 12..

I married young to get away and move out! My moms a gambler and because she left me a line with our father he raped me at 6 because she was at bingo...

I've never forgiving her or had much to say to her I just keep to myself.. I thought I wanted a relationship but I think distance is best between us..

How can any mom be his way? Yet yell at me because I do one small thing wrong.. She's big on me being with a man who can provide if he doesn't have cash he's no good!!!

Smh now she's got her hands in my BFs wallet I feel so bad.. :( what am I gonna do!?!!

Help? Sorry it's so long I'm fed up and stressed

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