Pain Comparing

A little bit of a rant but does anyone else just haaaateee when you’re complaining to someone about a pain in your body and instead of showing you some sort of sympathy they immediately say something about them?? Like okay can you atleast acknowledge my problem?? It sounds so dismissing when they say something about themselves. Atleast tell me something that’ll help me first or offer a massage 😅 then maybe you can mention your problem. Is that so much to ask?