Stationed in a near by state

My husband is currently stationed the next state away.

Has been for almost 3 years and was just reassigned there again for another 1-3 years. He comes home on holidays and 4 days. We are trying to conceive one of our own. We each have a kid from previous marriages. We recently miscarried 3 wks ago. Im 35 and high risk due to many miscarriages.

Anyone else out there with a similar experience? I'm starting the process of finding a new pcm, taking thyroid meds and getting a referral to see the fertility specialist to take clomid again. Thats how i was able to have my now 9 yr old son.