My MIL told me my bf is consuming drugs.

Im in disbelief but mostly because my MIL says it so calmly.

My bf lives with her and don’t know why she takes it so “normal”

My bf smokes weed and she’s always been against it so Idk if she refers to weed. Let me explain.

This week, my bf and I got in small arguments twice. I know for a fact it’s not me! First time, he got mad because he was complaining about his phone bill. I told him he should change to a different plan. He pays 160 for his line. I Pay 162 for 4 lines. 😳 he told me “if you’re not paying my bills don’t make suggestions or tell me what to do”

Well he ignored me all night. Second time was this morning! On my way to work send him a selfie and he was butthurt about showing some cleavage. I told him sorry for making him feel uncomfortable. He told me he rather not talk to me. It’s been like 14 hours since he’s talked to me. Problem is he gets mad easily and when he does he goes 1-2 days not talking to me over this BS.

Im close to him so I asked her for an opinion. I told her I felt upset. She told me

“Jess, my son is consuming again. He’s consuming whatever he was doing before. So expect aggression and ignore him” she was unable to explain what he was consuming but I’m assuming drugs. Dont know how she says it like it’s normal