Is my fiancé emotionally abusing me?

My fiancé is constantly making fun of me. He tries to convince me that he’s playing, but he literally makes a comment or puts me down over everything I do or say. He says them in front of other people. He says them in front of our daughter. When I call him out or show hurt feelings, he gets annoyed/ angry with me being “too sensitive” or his new one since I started going to the gym is “oh I thought you went to the gym? Shouldn’t you be tough?”

It just hurts and I’m wondering if I am being to sensitive. He calls me things like “manly” or some guy’s name if I walk or talk a certain way. He tells me I try too hard to be like other people. He just makes me feel so small and I can’t even talk to him about it because he makes me feel crazy. I feel like he hates me. I feel like I cannot be my true self with him.

Any thoughts on what I can do? I really need advice. I have talked to him so many times and it just does no good…