Son still doesn’t like his dad

Yesenia

A long time ago I made a post talking about how my son (at the time he was a baby) didn’t like his dad (my soon-to-be-ex-husband). Ever since he was 6 months he can’t stand to be with him and I thought he would grow out of it but now he’s almost 2 and he still can’t stand it! I feel bad because I know it hurts my husband’s feelings and I don’t see that he’s doing anything to make our son not like him. My husband has depression and anxiety and used to be in a really bad headspace all the time but he’s been on medication and has improved a lot in the past year but my son still cries if I’m away. This makes me nervous because we are separating and I will be moving out in February and we are planning to share custody 50-50 but I can’t imagine forcing my son to stay with his dad when he doesn’t like to be around him. I told my husband he needs to try harder and not be so lazy with him and maybe he’ll want to spend time with him but he really does do the bare minimum. He’ll play with him inside our small apartment (or try to) but he won’t take him to the park or outside to do anything fun unless I make him because he’d rather sit or lay down to play with him. Any advice?