I need to vent so bad, please be kind.

My husband’s cousin stayed with us for two years 2years ago for free. Since nobody in our family likes her. We took the courage to give her a home but remain it clean in return. That’s all we asked. Short story. We have to kick her out because the house was filthy and her two massive dogs poop was piling up in our backyard and she bought a brand new JEEP. When she left, it was not a nice goodbye. Attitude risen up. We have to order a dumpster and my husband has to clean her mess by himself (because I am not doing it)

2yrs later, husband and I got pregnant. 35weeks now. We received a package that full of medicine that was under her name. We thought she sent it in the wrong address. Then my husband called her last week to let her know about the mail. Then she said she is coming to town. I said what????? For what??? My husband told me he has not agreed for her to stay. I said good. He also said she is coming with her van where she sleeps. I did not comment on that.

So she sold her car and get a mini van with a sink and a bed with her two massive dogs. My husband told me she just need a power to hook her van and a shower. I asked how long she is gonna stay. He said he does not know. Then I started to get stressed. I can’t be comfortable because of her energy and the past came back all in my head at the same time. Then my tummy gets hard and I know I’m stressed out.

She arrived last night. My husband politely help her out next door. When my husband was taking a shower. I can hear her coughing so hard. She claim she has a vaccine which in my situation being pregnant, I don’t care. We don’t have vaccine yet and I don’t want people close to us as much as possible.

He asked me if how long I want her to stay. I said 1week. I’m not sure if he will tell that to her because I know my husband. He has a golden heart that I don’t.

Am I being rude for not talking to her? I don’t even wanna see her. I feel like she is using my husband and taking advantage of every situation. Well, I’m pregnant. I’d rather loose a family that loose a child again. 🥺