Advice .. how do I mend this

Ok I don’t no if this is in the right place but please any ideas …

I find I’m always fighting for what I want in my relationship and never get it.. I cook ,clean ,pay the bills ,do all the shopping and errands and take care of the two kids, animals and house day in day out 365 days a year

And for the past few months I’ve not gotten a break or a cuddle, even when I’ve begged him. he promised today I could but left me with the girls all day till 7 (there bed time) and then said I can have a break now do food shopping… I could have nearly killed him.

We don’t sleep together as he stays up all night and sleeps on couch unless he wants something, if I want he doesn’t even let me touch him as he not in the mood.

Am I wrong in thinking this isn’t right ? Is this the sign of a broken or even worse relationship when he chosen his friends and his wants over his family’s needs to keep going