Sexually frustrated

I need to vent. It’s so difficult to confine in people since my family especially my mom wasn’t too excited for me to move in with my boyfriend. We’ve been dating over 2 years. It Will be 3 years in March. I do love him, and he’s always been good to me. But ever since we moved in I’ve felt sort of distant. Not as close as we used to be. Ironically moving in has caused us to drift a bit. He did get a full time job, whose hours tend to be opposite of my working hours. (I’m self employed, work mostly afternoons/nights) it’s been 2 months and have only had sex 4 times! And for the most part I’m the one initiating. We do cuddle and stay sweet but I wish it would come from him. I plan on going out to talk to him about it all, since I’ve just been bottling it all up.

We do have 2 roommates so it’s never just us in the apt.

Is this “normal” ? Has anyone experienced something like this. Is there anything that can help bring us closer/ our sex life.

I’m 23 he’s 29 btw