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Question

My fiancée and I have been together for over two years.Things are awesome, together we are planning our wedding, and also talking about the future. 
When I bring up baby making plans he at first said lets wait six years, and Then he changed his mind to tell me he wants to have a kid after we get married. Most of the time when I have worries I talk to him about how I feel, its almost like he shuts down on me. 
Like he just agrees with whatever I want, or whatever i say. I genuinely care about his feelings, and I want to compromise but i also don’t know why he acts this way

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You need to talk to him about it and learn how to communicate with each other before you get married.

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You two need to fix the communication issues right now, before marriage. Even if that means starting with counseling.

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Clearly kids are a hot button for him, he may not want them at all, or he may just be telling you what you want to hear to shut you up, clearly you need to work on the communication issue before you even think about getting married because what you tell her right now will only get worse later, the last thing you want is him slamming doors and punching holes in walls or whatever else it may be, you need to learn to communicate, not leave the room, not storm off angry not slamming doors etc. but actually communicating, and resolving issues, not holding things over each other’s heads, using guilt or manipulation to get what you want etc. all of that is toxic behavior. And the last thing you want us to be the receiving end of his anger issues or anything else. And remember what you tolerate will only get worse. You are saying right now what your marriage is going to be like, feeling isolated, feeling disappointed, etc. doesn’t sound like a happy marriage does it. I would clearly recommend marriage counseling or maybe not even marrying him at all until you get this figured out.

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