Is he watching porn?

Question

If you were to come home and saw your husband laying on the bed and when he got up he obviously had a boner. But tried hiding it from me. When I questioned him he said that he was thinking about me and it made him horny. I have asked him to not watch porn before we even got married. But with my past insecurities and issues. I have a hard time thinking he is telling the truth.  What do you guys think?

Accepted Answer

My husband gets boners from “being alive” in his words 😂😂 
So I don’t think it necessarily means he was watching it

Answer

He probably was, it’s his body, you can’t tell him he can’t touch himself or he can’t watch some thing or whatever else, that’s just controlling and toxic behavior on your part. It’s not his fault that you are insecure, or you have body issues, or anything else. That is your issue. Now if he has a history of cheating, and you stayed, then that is also your fault because you stayed, you tolerate the behavior, you choose to stay with him, that behavior becomes acceptable which is why they continue to do it. When you disregard red flags, they become bigger problems later, as women we tend to give them the benefit of the doubt and to try and see the good in them etc. but all we are doing is just setting us up for being bit in the ass later by those same things that we dismissed.

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I wouldn’t have even worried about how he got it! I would’ve been thinking about how we can use it lol 😂 
Like…🤔🤔 whatcha got there?? 
😅😅

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He could’ve been watching porn. Or thinking about you. Or thinking about something stupid. Men can get boners super easy. I wouldn’t even think to ask why because like..idc 😂 I’d probably just ask if he wants to have sex or take care of it on his own

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You’re controlling asf. Telling a grown man what not to watch like he has parental controls or something

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might not have been watching porn. He could have just been thinking about stuff

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I would trust him. My boyfriend gets boners from thinking about me or from just me kissing him, it might be hard because of whatever u have gone through but trust is important unless he has given u a reason recently not to trust him

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How do you know he wasn’t just masturbating?

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Didn’t even have to read the explanation. Just from the title of your post the answer is YES 1,000,000% 🤣🤷‍♀️

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I don’t understand the problem with porn. Men are extremely visual, it’s just a toy or an aid to masturbate to or to get them aroused, the same as women like to use sex toys or objects that vibrate.  Imagine if he was jealous of your dildo? Honestly, I just don’t understand women who think even LOOKING at another women is cheating, we are all human and we like to look at something different every now again. As long as he’s not actively going out and seeking real women to have sex with, I really don’t understand the problem. Telling a person what can and can’t turn them on personally isn’t for me….each to their own and if it’s not ok for you then fine, but I really just don’t get it.

Is he watching porn?

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