Update

So here’s an update for y’all. This past week I found out that my current baby daddy (NOT my daughters father) but my current baby daddy that got me pregnant anyways I found out from his two friends that he had been talking to his ex from high school. And I found out last night from my friend jasmine that he has been adding girls on Snapchat and asking to hookup.

Now last I left off he gave me his email said we’d be in contact and said he needed to change his number bcuz of my friend jasmine contacting him. He did in fact change his number and I sorta got his number from his two friends that got it from his ex. I’ve sent him 4 emails and haven’t gotten a response from him so this past week I decided to send him a couple messages on Instagram.

I didn’t think that he’d see the messages cuz he hadn’t been active whenever I was active on Instagram. He ended up seeing the messages yesterday and blocked me. Now this past week I haven’t been aware of this until Isabella sent me a message yesterday telling me that jasmine has been contacting literally his family members and even a few of his friends to tell them about him getting me pregnant and not talking to me and taking responsibility. And she kept on texting his new number too.

Now her and I are talking to one of his cousins. And his cousin said he hadn’t heard from my baby daddy in years and yesterday he said he gets a message from him on Snapchat saying that he’s deleting all his social media bcuz him and his family are getting harassed by a third party (NOT me) but jasmine. Now I have no way to even talk to him at all. I checked on my backup Instagram to see if his Instagram account is still up and it is.

His cousin thinks that it’d be a good idea if I give him a little bit of space. He suggested like 2-3 weeks and let him realize on his own that this situation is serious and that he needs to step up and talk to me. He said once those weeks are up I could try reaching out to him and he said if I don’t get a response from him then to show up to his house one of these days and ask to speak with him. Now the only reason I’m nervous about that is bcuz I’m worried if his parents see a car in their driveway that they don’t recognize then they’d call the police.

Do you guys think I should do that tho and be the bigger person here and take action in a grown up way? Also do y’all think that his mom is behind everything just trying to control the situation?