I'm from ohio. So I grew up Tom boy / old fashioned. Basically to be able to protect myself. My husband is from Kentucky. He's a southern / farm boy. Has respect and is truly every women's dream (not by looks, but by heart, respect, caring, and does everything for everyone even works 60 to 70 hrs a week to provide) he just turned 22, I'll be 22 in 4 months. We've been ttc on the down low. His mom I feel doesn't like me. But I give effort to keep the peace. His brother is 25-26 and is dating a 21 yr old. Someone 6 or so younger than me they had a baby February or March this year (unplanned). We are planning a baby. I can't get pregnant without fertility treatment. But his mom doesn't know about us ttc. And a year ago we did treatment (unsuccessful). I REALLY WANT to tell her were ttc after 3 years I want her to know. We live in ohio. She lives in KY and lives 5 hrs away so due to somethings we can't go see her often. We're going for christmas. She hated the fact of kids early and grandchildren. But now she melts when she sees her granddaughter. So my question is.... SHOULD I TELL HER?? I'm tired of keeping the secret.