first kiss

my girl friends kissed me a few days ago and it wasn’t with my consent. i don’t want to make it seem like they’re bad people but i just didn’t expect that to happen and now one of them keeps asking for a kiss and it makes me very uncomfortable. i say no and they threat to leave (as a joke) or just switch the topic to their mental health. i just.. idk what to do😕

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CB

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I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s super shitty, especially coming from someone who you trust. Now’s a great time for you to practice setting boundaries. “You’re making me uncomfortable and I don’t want you to ask again.”

Ja

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I’d say that you should talk to that friend and tell them about how uncomfortable you feel- state your boundaries, and that you don’t want them to kiss you. If they continue to act that way after talking to them about how you feel, I think its safe to say that you should stop staying in contact with them. I’m so sorry that this happened to you.

Ba

Bailey • Jun 28, 2022
I think op meant in a relationship like a poly relationship I’m not sure but that’s what I’m getting from what they wrote

Ma

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Leave that relationship. Those responses are toxic