Am I wrong for deciding I didn't like baby name?

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So, long story short, deciding on a baby name has been absolutely horrid between me and my SO. We have not been able to agree since finding out I was pregnant. I went into early labor, and we just picked something and agreed on it. Unknowingly to me, it was his grandmother's middle name. I wasn't entirely happy, but figured she just needed a name because she was coming RIGHT then. Well, at the hospital they managed  to stop the labor, and we agreed not to tell anyone the name, just in case. About a week later, I decided I didn't like it anymore. (I honestly HATE the name the more I think about it.) I mentioned this to him, and he flipped out. He said "I told my mom and she loves it, she's going to be devastated." Well, his mother (my MIL)  treats me like shit so I honestly could care less about her feelings, but am I wrong for not liking the name now? I told hubby I didn't want to  pick a name we both weren't completely in love with, and I've gotten nothing but attitude since. 🙃 every day he throws in my face about baby not having a name but I just don't want to budge, I do not like the name. I suggested using it as a middle name, and that's still not enough. Should I just stick with this name that I hate, or go with my gut?

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So you kind of asked 2 questions so I answered the first 😬 I voted no you aren't wrong! Don't name your baby a name you don't love!
I like that you offered to use it as a middle name though, he'll have to get over it.. if the table was turned he'd likely expect you to change the name as well. And honestly it's his fault for telling his mom when you agreed to keep it to yourself 🤷‍♀️

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You aren’t wrong, but you can’t blame him for being upset that you changed your mind when he already got excited and told his Mom. 
But don’t go with a name you hate. Or at least consider using that name as a middle name if you like it and are willing to compromise. 
It’s kind of weird that you liked the name until you found out it was his grandmother’s. Whether or it that’s a coincidence it still looks fishy so don’t be surprised if people are upset that you purposely pulled the name because you didn’t want that tie tone his family.

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You told him not to tell anyone and he did. So that’s on him.
Do not pick a name you don’t like.

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What’s the name?! 😃😃😃

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I would not call my baby something I hated ❤️❤️💙💙

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If you hate it- you’re only going to hate it more once she is here and every time you write it, say it, spell it, etc

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My first went 24hrs without a name. We had a list and waited until we met him, plus we couldn't agree. 
You aren't wrong. No one should give their child a name that they don't like. He needs to get over it, move on, figure something else out.
How would he feel if he was the one that didn't like the name but you insisted anyway?

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I don’t think uou should be stuck with a name you don’t like. That’s not fair to you at all. You’re the one carrying baby around for 10 months you definitely should have a strong say.

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You should never go with a name you hate. If baby isn’t born yet, you still have time to decide, but you better get moving. We didn’t name our son until a few hours after he was born. We had two names in mind, but couldn’t decide on which one to choose. So we gave it some time and named him with the one we thought for him best. I think you have until you leave the hospital to finalize the name.

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Don't give your baby a name you hate. His mother has zero say in this. You are the one that will be using the name every day. I also wouldn't want to inflict a name I think is horrible on my child.

Am I wrong for deciding I didn't like baby name?

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