Sex during pregnancy

I’m 9 weeks 5 days. We haven’t had sex since the night before I found out I was pregnant. I had a loss in August. Everything scares me. I know it’s safe. But I also know sometimes it’s not. Could anyone (kindly) share their experiences? My husband has been so kind and patient with me ❤️❤️ I feel more safe when we don’t have sex but at the same time I want to 😂 I just went to know what everyone else’s experiences were, opinions, etc. thanks!!!