Help need help !

Okay so yenno when you loose your V yenno pop the ( 🍒 ) can people tell you've done it for the first time am 20 years old ( I know so embarrassing 20 year old virgin ) but am worried that I I do it my mum and dad might tell that I have if you know what I mean ? Coz apparently most people can tell when a girl has lost her virginaty ?