Im pregnant and my bf doesnt work

Kema 🌈🤴🏾🌈👸🏾🖤

Ok so please hear me out before you tell me to just leave the man I love and am now having a baby with. If anything, im really looking for tips to motivate him because im at my wits end.

When I met him, he was a well paid headstart teacher which is apparently a little more tedious than regular daycare work, Ive learned. He has always treated me like a priority in his life from day one. When I cook, he cleans. He is beautiful with my kids and his own. He loves me individually for me in every way. I honestly have never experienced a healthier more honest or loving relationship than the one im in with him.

But when his job required all of their employees to get the vaccination, he left his job (with my support) and went out looking for a new one with his 17 years of child development experience. I was amazed to see how hard it was for a black man (especially tattooed) to get work in his feild. Its heartbreaking. But along this time our housing situation was falling apart and ultimately we ended up having to moving back to my home state, in with my mom.

He was supposed to get a new teaching job or at some point just any job and I continued with my work from home because it is mobile and picked up a restaurant gig try and keep up.

The plan was to save up and move back out in a couple months but its 7 months later and im now 12 weeks pregnant, still working the 2 jobs, while he just seems to have lost motivation to work at all.

In every way he still treats me like a queen in our personal life. But im tired. And getting frustrated and impatient. I understand we had to relocate to a new state he isnt from but even Wawa, the gas station is hiring for $13 an hour.

Im a 32 year old pregnant woman living with my mom. I love him. Be gentle please. I need advice.