Am i am ass or bitch for this? Pregnant with baby #2 due in may, have almost nothing...i mean we have a very small laundry basket that has clothes and a blanket in it and a bassinet, all of which was given to us. My husband comes up to me and asks me if we can give baby clothes to a" friend' of his, whom I never met, nor ever heard of him speak about, because she has a premature baby. I told him no, im sorry but we need it for us, and we dont even have much, maybe at most there are 30 outfits, but i havent counted so i am not sure.... Now hes pissed cuz I wont help this chick out that I dont know who she is because we need the baby stuff for us. Am i the asshole?