How do you tell the father your pregnant but you don’t want him to be involved because he’s a asshole to you and make you feel worthless all the time (we’re not together anymore) My nephew and mum don’t like him at all and i don’t want my baby to feel like i do when he’s around I want the best for me and bubs but i don’t want to have him completely involved he can still see the baby but he can’t have the baby alone because he smokes and drinks all the time and he lies to me that he’s stop both of them and he says he’s depressed and then he denies it and he also makes me out to be the bad guy all of our friends have taken his side on everything and they all hate me i don’t mind but it hurts. should i just be straight forward about it and tell him what it is