Am I the only woman who it feels or seems like their man never wants them sexually or affectionately?

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My man always has some aliment as to why he don't want or can't have sex or cuddle me at night.. his side hurts ..his back hurts.. he's tired.. belive me I have heard every lame excuse in the book but yeah porn is always in his phone .. we went down from sex 2 or 3 times a week to bow it's been 2 weeks. Wtf is the deal? Then when I asked for it.. I was told quote I was too much and shallow and I demanded sex and too much from him. So now it's like you know a**hole.. it will be a cold day in H*** before I ask you for ANYTHING AGAIN. BUT AM I THE ONLY ONE GOING THRU THIS? THIS IS MY FIANCE WE LIVE TOGETHER ..

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Is he depressed? Depressed people will make excuses up to get out of doing things.

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You know him best . I went through this as well for months and explained it daily and things did not change, I eventually left and remarried. Dont settle. Sex is important in any relationship and can cause damage by not having it

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I feel like you’re taking it personally when it could be a variety of other things - especially if your relationship is alright in other areas. 
We both go through bouts where we don’t want to. During summer he typically isn’t in the mood because he works a lot and doesn’t have the energy or desire for sex. Sometimes for a month or so- and the same with me during winter because I’m typically in a lower mood. You pressuring him probably doesn’t help either and guys don’t perform well when they feel pressured. Just let him relax and let the drive naturally come back or try to get to the reasoning why he’s not in the mood. The fact that he had porn on his phone doesn’t mean much to me unless you guys have a mutual no porn rule. Sometimes I have no desire to actually have sex but just need a quick release with porn. You can always get a vibrator and please yourself when he’s not ready at the same time as you.

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Definitely don't ask or come onto him. Maybe he is feeling too much pressure. I would just wait and see what happens.

Am I the only woman who it feels or seems like their man never wants them sexually or affectionately?

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