Constipation!! PLLLEEAASE Help.

Okay so. I’m 13 almost 14 weeks pregnant. I’ve been sick the past two weeks, barely ate or drunk anything or left the bed. It was just a cold but it really had me down bad.

Anyways I’ve been trying to poop since last night. It’s one of those dry hard ones. And no matter how much I push and strain, nothing. I’ve tried relaxing. I’ve tried just sitting here and waiting. And literally NOTHING it feels like it’s honestly way to big to come out of the hole. How would I make this softer or easier to come out. Seriously what can I do? I’ve never hurt so bad. I can’t sit down. I now have a terrible hemorrhoid. My main question is what can I do or do I just have to push the big hard monster out?