Am I doing everything I can?

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Weve been ttc for 3 months now. I take prenatals, maca power, eat well and work out. We have sex every other day and every day during fertile times. It's getting very frustrating knowing everyone else is getting BFPs and don't even plan and were devasted each month when AF comes. Any advice? I know it can take while but this stress and frusteration is killing me :(

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Try not to stress, your bfp will be here before you know it.  DH and I have been trying since June, and ate trying pretty much everything.  We're hoping this month is it, but if not we'll just have to try again next month. Since this is what you want, there's no giving up! Baby dust to you!

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Getting pregnant can take time. I've defiantly learned that. Honestly it will happen when you don't worry about it lol.

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Yes you are! In fact, you're doing a lot more than us (TTC for 12 months) I think it usually takes couples 6 months or so. It will happen, just keep on and think happy thoughts ;)  good luck!

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I feel like I'm in the same boat as you KM. It's heartbreaking. But I think the thing that gets me by, is knowing that when it does happen, it will be perfect. I'm a strong believer on things happening for a reason. And that there's a reason why you are waiting for that perfect time. Hang it there!

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the average healthy women will take 9 months to a year to concieve. It stinks but its normal. We have been trying over a year. Thw main thing is to stay busy and not let it consume you.

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If you haven't had a kid yet, I would recommend (if you haven't already recently) getting a current PAP smear. Before getting pregnant I had no idea I have a tilted uterus. I've read that it might be more challanging to concieve with this (although I never had an issue when I wasn't trying). I'd say if you don't get pregnant within a few more months, talk to your doctor and see if they have any more suggestions or ideas as to why you haven't been successful. But I'm pretty sure on average it takes awhile to concieve. It can also depend on your guy- I was with someone for 4 years, protected sex, unprotected, every day of any cycle & never got pregnant, and it made sense because it took his mom & dad 5 years to make a sibling for him. Some people aren't as fertile.  Best of luck though.

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I'm in the same boat. My husband and I got too stressed out about it and we just had to step back and relax. This is now our fourth month trying. Good luck! Baby dust your way!

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