We've been ttc for almost 4 yrs. I had an open myomectomy late June- one VERY LG fibroid- and Dr gave us the green light to resume ttc. I am recently 40, healthy, ovulating, regularly menstruating and DH is healthy but home once monthly due to his job (we plan for time of ovulation time). We both have children from previous marriages and we would love to have more kids together but it's not happening.

Idk if I am just ranting, looking for words of encouragement to lighten my sadness, or soliciting advice. I'm not one to give up, but I'm starting to lose hope.