Do you think he has a point ? Car update #2
I feel like I’m being annoying and I’m sorry. I just feel so lost and have major anxiety. I’m not here to change your minds on anything or to side with me…. I just feel like I haven’t done my part and I feel like this is my fault .
So im the one who posted about my bf telling me he was ready to move in. Long story short, I don’t have as much saved for a home as he does. I told him that and he still told me he would cover the majority of costs. He knows I don’t have as much and no im not relying on him. I wanted to let him know I wasn’t ready to move in because of my circumstances and he still chose to say he still wanted to move in. And for those who asked we are both 27. We dated at age 18. Idk if that matters but please help me!!!!
He told me this yesterday.

So that’s when I found out he bought a 70k car! He dumped 15k on a downpayment and now he’s left with 2.5k.
A lot of you ladies made me realize it wasn’t my business to be upset on what he spent his money on. I wasn’t upset. I was upset he had literally sent me that text the night before.


These are the comments that made me realize I did fuck up by bringing it up to him.
I apologized for being on his “ass” about him lying about moving in. I just would have preferred he didn’t tell me anything.

And we messaged through Instagram becaus he posted a pic of his car that’s why I commented.
He said he wasn’t motivated to dump in money for a home because I won’t get pregnant.
Literally….is this what I have to do to put in my part?? I have no clue how the car escalated to me not getting pregnant?!
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