Husband - Cheating?

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Question is it okay for husbands to go to a strip club ? Mine went without telling me and then I caught him and he got upset with me. Am I in the wrong ? Does this mean I’m not enough for him ?

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The lying and covering it up would hurt me more than actually going to the club

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Whatever anyone else says doesn't determine what is and isn't okay in your relationship. If strip clubs are a no for you, have that talk with your husband. Lying and hiding things is a definite no across the board though.

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It's not allowed in my relationship. But unless that's a clear boundary you set then you can't technically be mad. But him hiding it and lying shows he knows it was wrong.

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I’m fine with my spouse going to a strip club. I don’t consider it cheating but I would be upset if he didn’t tell me.

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I don’t see the issue with going to a strip club but hiding and lying in any relationship is a major problem.

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Hiding it then getting mad at you is the problem here in my eyes 
That just shows me he knows he was wrong for it

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I think it’s bs that people have to set boundaries in relationships. like you’re a grown ass man/woman. did your momma & daddy not raise you to know right from wrong or to have respect? regardless if you’ve expressed to your SO or not about if it’s okay going to a strip club or not , he should not cross that line. Kudos to all the women that don’t care or have respect for themselves , but baby your man is supposed to be attracted to you only & not going out to gawk at a sweaty ass stripper.

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My husband is “allowed”. We’ve gone together and he’s gone with friends either way doesn’t bother me. It’s very rare he goes, bachelor parties and what not, but he always tells me. The hiding is what I find disturbing. (At least where I live) Men can’t touch the strippers, just look so I definitely don’t think that means you’re not enough at all.

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That’s a boundary to set. Some women are okay with it. Me & my partner both agree it’s crossing a line, but that’s a conversation we’ve had with each other.

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Strip clubs are out in our relationship but everyone is different . If you haven’t set those boundaries prior with how you feel now is good time. And if you haven’t then this time you need to let it go but next time you will not also you need to address the lying as that is big issue.

Husband - Cheating?

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