Anyone else’s toddler just not a good napper?

My son is almost 20 months old. He has NEVER been a good napper. He wasn’t a good sleeper at night either until I stopped breastfeeding him at 16 months old. We get most nights without wakings, but still sometimes I have to gently shush him back to sleep.

But for naps, they’re never consistent. Even when our daily schedule is the same, we have a routine, even if I try to get him a little more physical activity. One day it’ll be 1.5hr. Next day 30 min. One week it’ll be 2 hours, next week 45 min. I try to do all the same things and I just never know with his naps.

It’s so frustrating when I’m trying to get so much done during his nap 😭