I have a 5 year old daughter I love my husband unconditionally, lately every time we have a discussion he gets loud aggressive and starts punching him self he never does this around our daughter but I’m scared she’ll see. I’m sure she has heard us arguing I just want this to stop and work out. It happened because I talked bad about his alcoholic mother I get it it’s his mom and I messed up but any argument he gets like this and then threatens to kill himself saying if he don’t have me or my daughter he’ll hurt himself and try’s hurting himself idk what to do I love him and I want to be with him but I don’t know what to do any advice without judgment?