I this normal?

Had anyone else been in a relationship where there a/o doesn’t try to celebrate your time being together like n anniversary? Even if your not married.

Or doesn’t buy you gift for your birthday, Christmas, or any time of the year?

Boyfriend didn’t care bout anniversary, he has never bought me a Christmas gift or a birthday gift.

We’ve been together 4 years.

We got into n argument the other day about the hour being a mess with 3 kids.

Nd he know I want to get married in the future,

He threw a jab at me and well when you see another women in your place with a ring in her finger than you could think about things because I told him he isn’t working, he doesn’t take the trash out, I change the diapers of the kids, I grocery shop, I pay some bills, he told me I have never paid any bills 🥺 I have bank records to prove. I believe he’s a mental abuser but it’s taken some time for me to nap into reality