Delayed decels anyone have this?

Mandy • 💏2012 🎀👶🏼1/10/14👼🏻+👼🏻+👼🏻+👼🏻2019👼🏻6/30/19,👼🏻5/31/20

Hey guys I posted something similar to this the other day but now I’ve got more info I wanna ask about something else.

My question is has anyone had to where their baby had dips in their heart rate while being monitored but got sent home and still had a healthy baby? I know usually they just deliver when it happens but I wanna know if anyone had to where they didn’t deliver when it happened and still went on to have a healthy baby.

Heres what happened to me:

So while I was in the hospital with preterm labor my baby kept having delayed decels meaning his heart rate was dropping but it was happening after I’d have a contraction. The doctors said they aren’t sure if it’s normal or if it’s something to worry about because anytime they see these delayed decels they normally just deliver the baby to be on the safe side but ’m only 25 weeks so they couldn’t do that. It didn’t do it after every contraction and sometimes it would happen without me even having a contraction if I was sitting weird. And so it was like we didn’t know if it was just the position I’d be in at the time or if something was actually wrong. No one could give us a straight answer they’d do to where they wouldn’t monitor me for a whole day and then they’d monitor me for a bit and see a decel and send me back up to labor and delivery to monitored all day but then they’d stop the monitoring even though it was still happening and say he was fine or it would be happening while I was on the monitor and no one would say anything and then other times they’d come running in and make me move to try and correct the decel. It was like one second it was this very serious situation then another second they’d say it could be completely normal but they don’t know because they’ve never done long term monitoring on a baby at 25 weeks gestation. They ended up sending me home and now I’m worried sick. Not knowing it this is something we need to be worried about or if it’s normal. I know my ob had told us just weeks before ghat it’s totally normal for a baby’s heart rate to go up and down at this gestation