boyfriend going to party that has a stripper - what do i do?
my boyfriend gives me absolutely no reason to believe he would ever do anything that would make me uncomfortable, but today he told me he was going to a party at a girls house who happens to be a stripper (we’re long distance so i couldn’t come with). totally fine! as a joke i asked, “does she have a pole in her house?” and he goes, “yes actually haha” and i was like, “oh? well does she go on it when you guys are there?” and he goes, “sometimes yes.” which took my by surprise. i said, “just wondering, would you be totally okay if i went to a party and there were male strippers?” and he said that he would be okay with it because he wouldn’t just expect me to leave the party.
i totally understand that, and i do trust that he’s not spending his time looking at her or whatever, but i’m just not sure if i should bring it up. like it kinda makes me uncomfortable knowing he’s there with strippers but i’m also not tryna be controlling?
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