My mother in law is a hacker

Background info: My MIL has never liked me. I assume it’s because of my race because she was so excited to hear her son had his first girlfriend until he told her I was black. She canceled the dinner party she had planned for meeting me and everything. Anytime he made plans to be with me she would call him home within an hour and go crazy if he spent any extra time with me (we were 19 back then). She would give him a long list of things to do before he was allowed to see me. When he did finish the list she kept adding more and more so that he would have to keep rescheduling with me. I finally ended up meeting her when I visited her in the hospital and she could no longer avoid me.

My MIL is disabled so she spends a lot of her time in bed using technology. Her job before she was disabled had to do with hacking tech systems. She has used her talent to get revenge on people. When my FIL cheated on her, she started to control his prized truck with her phone.

She hacked my husband’s car when he first got it. I know this because she knew every single place he was going. When he took me to the women’s health clinic she messaged me the same day saying she heard we were trying for a baby. I asked him if he told her but he swore he didn’t. She even made his car stop at a red light while he was out driving when they were fighting and she kicked him out of her house.

We got married. We moved to a different city. He changed his number. He had to change his social security number because she kept stealing large sums of money out of his account. We went to the state judge about her stealing his identity and the judge said what she was doing was a federal crime and we needed to talk to the police first. When he confronted her about taking his money she blamed me and said I was the one doing it (she admitted to being guilty later on). She ruined his credit as well. He went to the police after she stole his grandmother’s identity to collect her social security checks. His grandmother didn’t file a report so the police let it go (she’s almost 90 and probably didn’t understand what to do). They only knocked on his mother’s door and gave her a warning.

Lately, she created this character named Cee Cee and had her FaceTimeing my husband’s phone at 12am. I freaked out and thought he was cheating on me. He proved to me that he didn’t know anyone named Cee Cee and he was being hacked. I tested it myself by texting his phone from my number calling out his mother for her shit and saying I knew it was her doing it and to back off. We never heard from Cee Cee again after I sent that message (she reads all messages that are in his phone from her laptop). He used his own hacking skills to blow up both of her laptops and he watched her face while it all went down. Only a month later, she was back at it again. She borrowed her friends devices to regain control.

My husband and I weren’t getting along too well and she got her timing right. My husband went to jerk off to porn in the bathroom early in the morning and his mother recorded it without him knowing she was watching him. She used the nude photos, videos, and selfies she got from different black women off this dating app called “black.” She created a text thread history impersonating him talking for weeks to several of those women. She even went as far as making it look like he met with a prostitute who kept asking him for more money.

I noticed he has been working longer hours since I quit my job. I rarely see him and he doesn’t message me throughout the day either. Then I noticed his ring was left on his desk. I messaged him asking why he wasn’t wearing it and he said his hand was swollen that morning and he had a reaction from it. That’s when I noticed his iPad buried under some papers in a box and opened it (he told me later that he was looking for his iPad). I couldn’t believe all the shit I was seeing. I was so heart broken. I sent him photos of the messages between him and several different women. He denied all of it and I couldn’t believe him. He started trying to pin point the location of the hacker before he went to the police again about it.

It wasn’t until the next day that I went back to the iPad and responded with an insult calling his MIL a miserable piece of shit. She had his side of the message text back saying “that’s someone else not me” but my husband was with me and he didn’t even have his hands on his phone.

He has gone to the police about her cyber attacking him and they wouldn’t do anything until he used what his mother taught him about hacking to prove that it wasn’t him. He was able to pin point her exact location using his phone. The police were impressed and offered him a job as a hacker for them on the spot. It’s just really annoying because I’ve never had a true moment of privacy with my husband. She’s always been watching him and monitoring me. She knows every detail going on in our marriage. I hope that the FBI finally ends her so that my husband and I can begin to recover our marriage.