How do I cut off my toxic mother

Mandy 🇵🇷 🗽

My mom is telling me to wait a couple weeks before I get a job & to hold off my interview that I have gotten for a second time because I missed the first one.

I’m pregnant and I’m currently a month late in my rent I’m just confused.

She’s been living off my dad never had her own place since I was born and I don’t know why I still bother to get advice from her but I just felt her being a Grown woman thinking she still has been through struggles that she would understand but she gives me the worst advice.

She told me to get rid of my baby because I would be ruining my life & my father also mentioned that I didn’t need any more additions to the family and I was just good with my two kids..!!

currently I am 16 weeks pregnant and keeping my son!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

I also have been in the process of moving and she told me that my dad said I should remain here like they have for almost 2 decades!

it’s like they don’t have any ambition for me or motivation on my future never pushed me or motivated me with my music career growing up and I’m hell of a singer but All the nights I ran to open mic and karaoke she was accusing me of being in the street prostituting !!

I’m so alone and I’ve given her multiple chances, I didn’t allow her in the hospital when my 1st son was born because I went through a lot of hell with her before that and years of my life even after I got out the Nest ! she still tries to dictate my life or try to belittle me and that’s not the half of it.

I just don’t want to call her anymore and cut her off for a little while she’s very non-supportive and the same for my father they are very toxic and she can’t be dependent even come see me or her grandkids and always wants my father to tagalong and he is almost 80 !

she is in her 50s it doesn’t make any sense I think it’s time for me to move on with my life and keep my distance.. 

I don’t know who’s been through this but I think the minute that I actually cut her off that I will be a lot better the people who are in your life put a big toll on you & I think I’ve reached my breaking point at 30

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