Do you think he just can’t let go?

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I feel stupid posting this. I think I just wanna understand what is going on. 
My bf will not talk to me when he’s mad. It has happened several times and I just don’t understand how he can go 1,2,3,4 days without contact. Like does he not miss me?
I was talking to a guy friend and he told me “I think he doesn’t love you anymore and just can’t let go” 
The reason is he comes back acting like nothing. Why can’t he just dump me!!! Idk what’s worse …
Him not being to break up with me or this abuse 
Im willing to work this out if he really wants to
The last time he did this I blocked him everywhere and he came to my place asking for forgiveness. If he’s over me I just pray he tells me

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Just toxic behavior.
I can't tell what he feels, but for sure it's a toxic way to act. I don't know how old you guys are, but I would really consider just breaking up with him and be sad and then find someone who's acting normally.
This is not okay behavior and you should not tolerate it.

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Emotional abuse, silent treatment

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No, I don’t think that. He’s an asshole, he’s doing asshole behavior and you’re allowing it. Don’t let him come back.

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Controlling toxic behaviour. Guys who do this are manipulative. They do it so you break down and apologise to them for what they do. Who knows what they get up to during the days you hear nothing from them. It’s emotionally abusive. 
If someone can’t or won’t communicate properly to resolve an argument or issue then you need to dump him.

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If you want to stay with someone like this then by all means stay, but just know in the long run you’ll have no energy for anything you’ll be worn down to a point of you cba with yourself. Stay.. but just have things on your terms (that’s playing games) don’t talk to him back, play this childish game along with him, don’t contact him n wait for him to contact you.. wait, who wants to wait around on someone like this who is emotionally manipulative n emotionally unintelligent. If a man loves n wants you they will show it, don’t listen to words. Watch action, you’ll have an answer. Don’t fool yourself you’ll only end up more hurt

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Walk away from him.. move on.. he is emotionally abusing u.. ur not his puppet.

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Either way its not the right way to handle his emotions and it might be a good idea to discuss it with him.

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Lol never take advice from men. They aren't reliable. He sounds immature when it comes to his emotions and I think you guys should have a talk about how it's not acceptable and how you guys can manage a disagreement better without ignoring the issue at hand forn4 days etc.

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Communicate your boundaries. If he cant meet them, leave him. That way you know you did everything you could, but yal just werent a match.

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