Am I the only one?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been very sexually active since we’ve met but, from time to time it gets boring we do the same positions over and over. I’ve suggested for us to try new positions but when it comes time for us to do anything he always tells me which position to go into. I always wanna spice things up and include toys and everything and try new things but he just insist on doing the same thing. I love him but I don’t want our sex life to be like this long term where we do the same things! I need help what should I do! I always send him like positions I wanna try or show him but he always sticks to the classic missionary

Answer

Are you taking any control in the bedroom itself? That would be my first suggestion. Sending him photos of positions is fine but maybe you can actually say “I want you to go in me this way” or whatever it is in the actual moment. Toys aren’t my thing but you can also try lingerie or costumes or anything else and surprise him with it and see how it goes. Just respect if it’s not for him. Honestly missionary is one of my favorite positions

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Yeah respect if it isn’t for him but if he cares for you surely he will try it before he decides and if it’s boring for you then maybe he isn’t the right partner for you. Why not ask him to make a wish list for toys? A good place to start is a bullet vibrator - loads you can do with it and not too intimidating for him - you can play with it solo first to see what you like.
Try taking over a bit when he says get in this position just say I’d like to try it this way and show him or try a text conversation - foreplay through text - tell him what you’re fantasising about and what you’d like him to do to you and ask him if he will do it for real that evening? 
He maybe isn’t confident and needs you to take the lead.

Am I the only one?

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