So I am in my 30s....3 kids....my body isn't the same anymore so I get that. Im not even on any type of BC either.. My youngest is getting ready to turn 1yrs old....and I figured it was PP giving me a helluva run for my money....because I cant get horny, I cant get into sex period, with or without my partner its just ANY and EVERY Single thing stops me from getting the big O. I can't even get wet anymore. I remember i tried to rub myself to get myself going before we had sex and it was so dry, all i felt down there was skin...We tried lube, I hate it. We tried sex toys....way too strong for me. I dont have free time to play with myself and sometimes I feel like its shameful of me to be even doing such a thing, when I have 3 kids to care for 24/7. Im stressed out, along with other things going on in life🤷🏾‍♀️ Its affecting EVERYTHING in my life right now though, literally everything. This may sound dumb, as I have 3 kids, but I kinda forget how to have sex, my brain just won't let me get there. Stress is kiiiillllllen me 🥺💯🥴 I probably haven't "enjoyed" sexual pleasure in a good 2 years to be perfectly honest...maybe even a bit longer than that.