Is your boyfriend not wanting kids a dealbreaker for you?

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Oh please stop already
No because neither of us wants them
If you do and he doesn’t end the relationship

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Yes, but only because l want children.

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I nearly died giving birth to my daughter. I don’t want or need anymore kids. 
If i didn’t already have a child though it would be an issue.

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My partner comes with kids, they are in their 20s, he doesn’t want any more kids and doesn’t want to start all over again, kind of understandable when you’re 59 years old. I’m 43 myself I do not want any children but I don’t mind someone who comes with them. So if somebody who doesn’t want kids is absolutely not a deal breaker for me. On the contrary it’s a positive. Nobody wants to be waking up in the middle of the night at 60 years old to have to go and get crying children, on top of that you may or may not see their wedding day, unless they’ll be pushing you down the aisle in a wheelchair lol But if you want kids and he does not, then clearly he’s not the person for you, don’t go into a relationship hoping to change their mind or sabotage things and poke holes in the condom or not take your birth control etc. If he doesn’t want kids then he’s not for you. You clearly don’t have the same goals and you don’t want the same thing so why waste your time

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most definitely. because i’ve always wanted kids. thankfully my current boyfriend wants kids too. we both really want a daughter. but if i was to ever be with someone else, it would definitely be a deal breaker if they didn’t want any.

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for sure. my life goal is to be a mom so if they don’t want to have kids, it won’t work at all.

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Yes because it’s a foundational difference. They have different goals. I have no purpose in dating someone I know has different goals and foundations

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No, I don’t want kids myself 😅

Is your boyfriend not wanting kids a dealbreaker for you?

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