Obsessive partner

hannah

OK I have been with this guy 10 years. Is it normal he follows me around the house all the time if I'm cooking he's in kitchen if I go out for a smoke he will make one and come if I go to bed he does if I get up even at 5.30am he does! Is it normal or should I be worried he never just sits down and watches a film unless I do. Everytime 8li walk in a room he asks if I'm okay? Driving me mad we have 2 children 8 and 3 I don't have time for him needy behaviour