My SO and I started trying about a year ago. I’ve had 4 chemical pregnancies since we started and have been diagnosed with “recurring pregnancy loss”. It seems I have no issue getting pregnant, the issue is staying pregnant. My mom and best friend know that we’re TTC and they’ve become so invested in it. They know my cycle better than I do, remember the days and times of my doctor appointments better than I do. This month I did get a positive test and my doctor has started me on several medications to hopefully help it stick, but I refuse to tell my mom and friend I’m pregnant just yet. My friend asked if I started my period yet and when I said no she squealed in excitement. And my mom always tells my immediate family, so they get excited and then I have to hear all the sympathy from them 2 weeks later. I just feel like getting pregnant isn’t worth celebrating until I have an ultrasound confirming the pregnancy. It’s not fair to get everyone all excited when I’m not even excited. Let me get excited first.