I have an outie vulva. Growing up I thought MINE was normal and what every girl has. Then I went to college and heard some frat boys talking about girls with “roast beef curtains” down there. I was stunned. Mine are big. I’m self conscious about them but I’m married and he’s never made me feel shame. For reference, I cant ride a bike cause it feels like I’m cutting off circulation. Anyways. I have always wiped vagina up to clit. Rectum with a separate piece of paper. I wasnt taught to wipe front to back. I’m 30 and have 2 kids (1 being a girl) and I’m having reoccurring yeast infections, I’m wondering if my method is starting to cause me issues. But here’s my hang up, if I wiped the “correct” way-

1. Id have to actually separate my thin “lips” to get the toilet paper in between them which would cause me to get pee on my hands.

2. Don’t you feel like you’re just pushing everything into your vagina??

Other women who share my similar anatomy…do you dab or separate or what?

Also you don’t have to be condescending in the comments. You can be helpful and educational without being nasty.