Relationship??? Help me

We have been together for 16 months and have been living together for the most of it and have a 6 month of dog.

I love him. But it doesn’t feel like we are in a relationship. It’s not healthy.

If he does something to upset me I can’t express it without him blowing up at me. He expects me to take of everything for him but I feel he doesn’t take care of me. I feel like he treats me like his mother when he says all household things are my job. But I thought in a relationship we were suppose to be a team and help each other out (especially because I work longer hours then him).

I need advise!!!

I want this to work because we both have the same goals and already have so much together but is it right to stay together when that’s all we have??

I’m sorry I’ve this is to much to read - I’m in my head a lot right now and don’t have anyone to really talk to about it 💕💕