Me & my baby are on different sleeping schedules 😩

Steph

I’m exhausted and stressed and being a first time mother all by myself and somehow my baby is sleeping most of the day during the day and wants to wake up and keep me up all night. The problem is she is a heavy sleeper and doesn’t want to wake up at all during the day unless she’s hungry and then falls eighth back asleep. & at night she wakes up more frequently and everytime I lay her down she wakes up (only at night) then she wakes up a few times in the middle of the night and I breast feed so I have to get up and position myself correct and I can’t fall back asleep after being fully woken up so I’m just up watching her sleep and I don’t get anymore sleep. It’s also hard for me to sleep when she’s sleep bc I can’t sleep when the sun is out so I’m so tired my eye is twitching. Mother hood is kicking me in the ass bc I just got over mastitis the other day too .. how can I change her sleeping schedule? or have her sleep through the whole night ? or how can I get her to stay awake or wake her up during the day? Any tips would help. I just got the mamaroo too maybe that would help but she’s a tummy sleeper, always falls asleep on my chest. Any pointers how I can change her sleep schedule I need sleep 😩🥲