I have a 12 week old and our bedtime routine is ok, but I think it could use some improvement.

Here is our routine at the moment:

7:30pm - play time. We'll use the play gym, do tummy time, sensory toys, music, etc.

8:00pm - play time transitions into washing up / pajama time. LO will get a wipe down and lay around for some diaper-free airing out. We chit chat and do some more quiet play while he's on the changing table. Then get into pajamas and sleep sack.

8:30pm - bedtime bottle and rocking chair until drowsy.

8:45pm - in the bassinet. lights out

Where this routine needs some help is the 8:00-8:30 block when we transition to wash up / pj time. By the end of this window, he is really wanting that bedtime bottle and on some nights will be screaming his head off. Play time always starts off so well and he's in a great mood, but it gets ugly fast. I really want this routine to be calming before bed but it can be pretty intense.

Does anyone have suggestions on what to change? Would love to hear your routines to get some ideas! Or do you think LO will get used to it and start to learn bedtime bottle is on the way? :/