All of our friends planned their pregnancy and we didn’t..

So I’m currently 9 weeks pregnant. Three of mine and my boyfriends friends (all in the same friendship group) are pregnant and we are all very close together regarding due dates.

We haven’t told anyone yet but everyone has told us and everyone else about their pregnancy. When all three couples announced, they were so happy and seemed like when they found out it was such a happy moment considering they all planned it.

Me and my partner didn’t plan this, we already have a 9 month old . The conversation of abortion came up and we were seriously considering it but decided to keep it.

It jus now makes me upset because we didn’t have the best reaction to me finding out I’m pregnant and I know we weren’t as happy as these other couples. I wish we had a different reaction and I wish my partner was as excited and happy about it from day 1, just like the other fathers …