I wear hair bows and So I was really emotional when my bf gave me a set of handmade hair bows from this small business booth for Christmas… he has this girl best friend who he and her mutually liked eachother back in hs, and he called me to ask him pick out a scrub his for her for Xmas… Specifically told me he only had 2 scrunches for her and that he was worried it wouldn’t be enough (as well as sent photos of the two). Anywho this girl has an issue of bringing up “if me and ~ had gone down that path, my family would have loved him” type of stuff , but yes she sent me bows that she bought and so I instinctively just said I really wanted a blue bow for spring! She responded by saying “oh ~ literally bought me this light blue bow for Christmas” and the girl ends up sending me photos of the 2 scrunchies and a bow … just found it kinda odd since it’s like an ornamental gift, and also he never told me he bought it for her either so maybe he knew it was weird too.. yesterday he also commented on my dress saying it looked good from the back “at least” because I have a butt, but said from the front though I think it’s ok hahahahahaha” as I have no boobs at all 🥴 he later claimed it was a comment towards the dress, but the fact he mentioned because I had a butt that it made it look curvy from the back and then mentioned from the front THOUGH makes me very insecure. Any thoughts? Thank you